By using this site, you agree to the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.
Accept

520gan.info

  • Lifestyle
    LifestyleShow More
    Easy Dinner Recipes For When You Don’t Want To Cook
    1 day ago
    How to Decide on a Wedding Budget That Works for You
    2 days ago
    The Productivity Tip You Need, Based on Your Enneagram
    4 days ago
    The Best Journal Prompts for Each Enneagram Type
    6 days ago
    How to Make the Watermelon Salad Everyone Is Eating RN
    1 week ago
  • Finance
    FinanceShow More
    Financial Literacy Tips That Work With Any Budget
    7 hours ago
    6 Way To Improve Your Relationship With Money
    12 hours ago
    7 Tech Hacks to Help You Find Work-Life Balance
    2 days ago
    How To Make the Full-Time to Freelance Transition
    3 days ago
    Should You Consider Closing a Credit Card?
    4 days ago
  • Sex
    SexShow More
    Sex 101: How to Start Role-Playing With Your Partner
    9 hours ago
    How to Keep Your Sex Life Spicy While Social Distancing
    1 day ago
    50 Quick and Easy Sex Tips For The Best Sex of Your Life
    2 days ago
    What Do Sexual Fantasies About Your Ex Mean?
    3 days ago
    So, You Want to Have a Threesome…
    4 days ago
  • Sport
    SportShow More
    The Workout Motivation Tips Our Editors Swear By
    1 day ago
    Fitness Tips To Follow if You Hate Working Out
    1 day ago
    6 Ways to Feel More Toned By Tomorrow
    1 day ago
    A Personal Trainer’s Tips For Getting The Most from Your Workouts
    2 days ago
    Easy Ways To Move More During the Holidays
    2 days ago
  • Tech
    TechShow More
    Breville Barista Max review
    9 hours ago
    Apple iPhone 13 Mini review
    11 hours ago
    Ninebot KickScooter D38E review
    5 days ago
    Privado VPN review
    1 week ago
    Tokit Omni Cook review
    1 week ago
  • Contact
  • English
    • Русский
    • Українська
    • Polski
    • Deutsch
Reading: The Conversations You Should Be Having About Sex
Share
Notification Show More
Latest News
Financial Literacy Tips That Work With Any Budget
Finance
Sex 101: How to Start Role-Playing With Your Partner
Sex
Breville Barista Max review
Tech
Apple iPhone 13 Mini review
Tech
6 Way To Improve Your Relationship With Money
Finance
Aa

520gan.info

Aa
  • Lifestyle
  • Finance
  • Sex
  • Sport
  • Tech
  • Contact
  • English
  • Lifestyle
  • Finance
  • Sex
  • Sport
  • Tech
  • Contact
  • English
    • Русский
    • Українська
    • Polski
    • Deutsch
  • Advertise
520gan.info > Sex > The Conversations You Should Be Having About Sex
Sex

The Conversations You Should Be Having About Sex

Rosanna Hines
Last updated: 2022/11/13 at 9:42 PM
Rosanna Hines 4 days ago
Share
SHARE

From entertainment to advertising, we live in a culture where sex infiltrates many aspects of our lives. Although many of us might feel comfortable discussing the details of our sex lives over a few drinks with friends, sometimes it can be harder to talk about what we want in the bedroom with the person who really needs to know what we’re thinking.

Contents
Your sexual historyWhat your boundaries areWhat your kinks are (and how to explore them)What makes you orgasmHow often you like to have sexWhat contraception you are using (or would like to use)

Being able to communicate about physical intimacy is an important part of any relationship, and the only way to ensure that your sex life is satisfying for you both. If you haven’t already, these are the conversations that you need to have with your partner to get the most out of the sexual side of your relationship:

Your sexual history

Speaking of sexual health, this is a tricky but important topic that should always be discussed before having unprotected sex with someone new. Disclosing your STI status, checking that your partner has been tested recently, and clarifying whether either of you are having unprotected sex with anyone else are important steps in protecting your sexual health and making an informed decision about whether you should be using condoms.

What your boundaries are

We all have different limits when it comes to sexual play, and making sure that you and your partner are both comfortable is key to having enjoyable and fulfilling sex. You don’t need to be having 50 Shades-style sex to have conversations about what your boundaries are and what you feel happy doing — this can be a beneficial conversation for any couple, and give you an opportunity to express your likes and dislikes in the bedroom. If you are getting a little more experimental, then set out your expectations beforehand and remember to agree on a safe word.

What your kinks are (and how to explore them)

The things that turn us all on are complicated and immensely varied. It’s impossible to be able to expect your partner to know that you’ve always had a fantasy about firemen or all about your secret foot fetish, so if you want to enact your kinks, then this is a conversation that has to be had. Bringing up our innermost sexual fantasies can be nerve-wracking, so experts suggest introducing this via dirty talk, as part of a game, or by asking your partner about their kinks to ease you into sharing your own, according to Refinery29. Once you’ve shared your interests, then discuss how you can introduce these in a way that you will both enjoy, whether this is via roleplay, watching porn together that involves your kink, or engaging in safe and consensual BDSM.

conversations-about-sex-you-should-be-having-with-your-partner-the-everygirl-5

Source: rawpixel

What makes you orgasm

As much as television and movies would have us believing that the Big O is easy to achieve, most women find that their experience is slightly different. In fact, only 39 percent of women report “usually” orgasming during sex. Do something about this by talking to your partner about what positions are most likely to make you orgasm. You could also try masturbating in front of your partner, showing them the techniques that you use to make it happen. As well as demonstrating how to best get you off, you will likely also find that this is a great style of foreplay and that your partner loves seeing you turn yourself on.

How often you like to have sex

Most couples will find that there is at least some mismatch in their sex drives, and being unable to communicate this to each other can lead to massive misunderstandings. If your partner is a physical touch person who experiences love and affection through touch, then they may feel rejected if you’re just not in the mood. Similarly, a partner who connects more via emotional intimacy may feel devalued if they feel that you’re only interested in having sex when they just want to talk about their day. Talk to your partner about how often you like to have sex, how you generally signal that you’re not feeling sexual, and how you signal that you’re interested in initiating physical intimacy.

What contraception you are using (or would like to use)

Because women shoulder most of the burden of pregnancy, contraception in a heterosexual relationship is often seen to be the responsibility of the female partner. However, this doesn’t have to be the case. If you are thinking about changing your choice of contraception, you can easily explore potential options as a couple. How do you both feel about long-term contraception methods, such as an IUD or a vasectomy? If you’re planning on having children in the next couple of years, would something more short-term be a better option? Do you have other sexual partners and would therefore feel more comfortable using condoms? Having these conversations with your significant other means that you can reach a decision about your sexual health that benefits you both.

Rosanna Hines 23/03/2023
Share this Article
Facebook Twitter Email Print
Share
Previous Article 8 Ways to Finally Get out of That Dry Spell
Next Article The Productivity Tip You Need, Based on Your Enneagram

Editor's Pick

iDPRT ZP200 review
The Last-Minute Vacation Checklist You Need For Any Trip
Nubia Red Magic 7 review
How To Identify Toxic Productivity and Avoid It
How Meditation Can Help You at Work

You Might Also Like

Sex 101: How to Start Role-Playing With Your Partner

9 hours ago

How to Keep Your Sex Life Spicy While Social Distancing

1 day ago

50 Quick and Easy Sex Tips For The Best Sex of Your Life

2 days ago

What Do Sexual Fantasies About Your Ex Mean?

3 days ago

Removed from reading list

Undo
Welcome Back!

Sign in to your account

Lost your password?